tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5978210794589017586.post4601778245828105953..comments2023-08-19T06:54:39.667-07:00Comments on Suburban Scientist: ScienceGeekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01467788356864886880noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5978210794589017586.post-80408322712320659922009-11-13T16:48:20.177-08:002009-11-13T16:48:20.177-08:00First off, it's not your fault. Sure, you feel...First off, it's not your fault. Sure, you feel like it is because of course you do, but it's not. Not even close. It sounds like it's all just jealousy on her end, which is understandable. I had a shit childhood too, and I have a hard time letting go of it. <br /><br />Sounds like your sister has a lot of her own shit to muck through and I'm really sorry you're getting caught up in it.<br /><br />xoxoAunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5978210794589017586.post-3195749256848643902009-11-03T01:34:10.888-08:002009-11-03T01:34:10.888-08:00Thank you gp. For the compliments I'm going t...Thank you gp. For the compliments I'm going to hoard like a little dragon, and the advice.<br />Last night, I let it all go. I wrote my own letter, and although I'm still a bit unsure about sending it, I made up my mind to just stop worrying about the damn thing. I idolised my sister, I really did, and I'm going to keep the love part and ignore the rest, because I finally realised (yes, I'm not that bright sometimes) the only person who's emotions I can control are mine. <br />Thanks again.ScienceGeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01467788356864886880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5978210794589017586.post-10629344508910826172009-11-01T19:50:23.479-08:002009-11-01T19:50:23.479-08:00wow. my head hurts, lol
let me just say something...wow. my head hurts, lol<br /><br />let me just say something, i may have a relatively-romantical-novelty-ish idea of you. and it's 63.4% badassery of the hat in your pic.<br />yes, to my pot-blurry eyes, you are a cyber-carla-gugino with perfect legs and karate-chop-action. the fact that you're Smart-As-A-Whip raises the stakes, and makes you a Total Force.<br /><br />believe that!<br /><br />as far as your sister is concerned, well, it seems that She has the problem. and i DO understand your side of it: the guilties and the angries and the stabbed-thru-the-hearties. <br />let me preface my next point by saying that i myself have been estranged from my entire family for 20 years, because of me and because of them: it's fucked up all the way around.<br />now, my point is this, and i'm not preaching as i only recently learned it myself, Being Offended Will Eat You Alive.<br />that's it. whatever your family dynamic, whoever you are, all that negativity will kill you, kill your relationships, and rape the family pets.<br />there you have it.<br />i won't give advice and say, forgive her, work with her. you're an adult and i can't tell you what to do. <br />i can just be a good friend and say, hey, i don't want you in That Place, what are You going to do about it? if you don't buy into those reactive tendencies, then all the sadness she goes through will be her own.<br />have a good night, sweetie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com